'I admit I was a touch rude': Dude lashes out at dog owners after a simple inquisitive sniff

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    Font - AITA for telling someone i'm not friendly when their dog came up to me Everyone Sucks Went to a brewery restaurant with my wife. Our name was called and to get to our table indoors we had to cut through the patio. We got stopped for a few moments behind a table leaving and saying goodbye. In those moments, a lab type dog gets up and starts sniffing my ankles.
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    Font - I look at the owners and say what the hell? and point at the dog. They just say the classic line of "oh don't worry, he's friendly". I admit I was a touch rude, I just say, "I'm not friendly". They pull the dog back under the table. They start saying if you aren't friendly you shouldn't be coming to a dog friendly restaurant. I tell them just because the place is dog friendly doesn't mean that its okay for your dog to come up to me. I don't want it in my fè space.
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    Font - They seem baffled that someone didn't like their dog. He called me an asshole and told me to find somewhere else to walk. I say fok off as we head to our table. My wife was like your right, but could have been friendlier. Was i the asshole? Edit FYI: Indoors is not dog friendly. Outdoors is dog friendly. My wife and I specifically chose indoor seating because it was not dog friendly.
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    Rectangle - Budge1025 1 day ago - Certified Proctologist [25] ESH - they could've kept the dog closer to them, you didn't have to be such an AH about it. 27.9k Share NectarineMountain182. 4.8k ●●● 1 day ago Exactly. How close was he to be able to be sniffed by the dog just getting up. ESH op more than him Share
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    Font - coffeemom23 - 1 day ago • edited 1 day ago Asshole Enthusiast [6] YTA, you were hostile from beginning to end of this interaction. You could have asked them politely but chose to be rude for no reason. ETA: to people commenting that some people have PTSD/trauma related to dogs that could justify such a strong reaction, do you seriously think OP wouldn't have included that in his post if it were true of him? He knows he was 'a touch' rude in his first reaction, and the whole interaction sp
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    Font - BodyBy711 1 day ago YTA, you were passing by their table and got held up by another party and a dog sniffed your ankles and you proceeded to be an asshole. If the dog charged at you, jumped on you, growled at you etc sure, tell them to control their dog. But you entered the dog's space, and were a dick about it. Sniffing at you is hardly out of control, get a grip. 8.2k Share
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    Font - sam_sparkles69 1 day ago . YTA for your overreaction. You're not an AH for not liking dogs or not wanting to be sniffed, and you wouldn't have been an asshole for saying "Hey, please pull your dog back." or something to that effect. Starting the conversation aggressively with "What the hell?" and being admittedly rude is what makes you the ass. 3.4k Share
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    Font - Puzzleheaded_Style96 1 day ago I agree with your wife. You're in the right that their dog shouldn't approach strangers but you were super rude about it. You could easily just have said 'I don't like dogs in my space' so I think YTA 2.7k Share OneDumbfuckLater 1 day ago Then that's an ESH 307 Share ●●●
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    Font - casnh21 1 day ago • Partassipant [1] YTA seems like you took the most confrontational approach possible short of kicking the dog over a really trivial issue. 2.3k Share Kreema29 1 day ago Agreed. Asshole and seemingly insufferable. 470 Share
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    Rectangle - aVerySpecialHunt - 1 day ago . 2 Partassipant [1] NTA - Dogs should not approach strangers without the strangers consent and it is on the dog owner to control their dog in public. 'It's ok, he's friendly' is the phrase of a bad dog owner who doesn't control their pup. This one is on the owners. Having said that, you probably didn't have to be so rude about it. 1.9k Share
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    Font - Remarkable_Inchworm 1 day ago 3 Asshole Aficionado [10] "It's OK, he's friendly" is an ade Je thing that far too many dog owners say. It doesn't matter if the restaurant is dog friendly. It's unreasonable to expect the entire world to want your fur baby in their collective lap.
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    Rectangle - zorkempire 1 day ago Partassipant [3] YTA. Nothing happened, and you made a scene and were rude to strangers over it. You sound like a drama queen. 4 1.2k Share
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    Font - xXJust DanielleXx 1 day ago Partassipant [3] YTA - a dog SNIFFED YOUR ANKLE. Reread that. You're on the internet asking if you were rude about a dog SNIFFING YOU. I don't really see anyone being wrong here, but if there has to be one it's you lol 1.2k Share
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    Font - KronkLaSworda - 1 day ago Commander in Cheeks [205] YTA The dog wasn't in your space. It was in a dog-friendly restaurant, tough guy. Take a chill pill. 4665 Share
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    Font - judgingA-holes. 1 day ago Partassipant [4] YTA - I would get your reaction if the dog came over and was overzealous and jumped on you or pawed at you. However, he was sniffing around your ankles and you never said the dog actually touched you. You aren't wrong for not wanting the dog in your space but you are wrong for going about it in an asshole way, even you admit that you were rude about it. 446 Share
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    Rectangle - ItsmeUendiii. 1 day ago Yeah. I don't understand why people need to be rude. Like at all. "Hey can you move the dog because I don't like them?" 407 Share
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    Font - JenWess 1 day ago Partassipant [2] YTA a dog sniffed you and you flipped out, get a grip 364 Share
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    Font - OddNasty Satisfaction - 1 day ago Partassipant [3] As a dog owner, I would have tried to prevent my dog from sniffing anyone because I don't know if they'd like it. Just like if my son started bugging people in a restaurant. Doesn't matter if it's a "kid friendly restaurant" or not. But at the same time- a dog friendly restaurant means there will be dogs and this may happen, just like a kid friendly restaurant there is likely going to be a kid doing something weird. The owners (or parents
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    Font - Practical-Bird633 Asshole Aficionado [15] YTA. The dog sniffed you, get over yourself. 4 1 day ago 230 Share
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    Font - jrm1102 1 day ago Judge, Jury, and Excretioner [337] YTA - get ready for this to devolve into a thread about dogs in public spaces! You said the dog got up, he didn't touch you, he smelled you. So presumably you got close to where the dog was, you approached him knowing "youre not friendly". Its a dog friendly space so the dog is allowed to be there and there was no need to be rude. 202 Share ●●●

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